please stop taking me for granted!
Thursday, May 31, 2007 6:37:00 PM 4 comments
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It is sad to know that you are being used by your friends, you treat them too good. A piece of advise, only treat your close or best friends good. The rest you can simply ignore them.

I understand how hurtful you are feeling now especially most of your friends only contact you when you have a car! You are not alone out there. It happens to a lot of people out there.

I still remember that you told me about friends who will only call you when they need you to fetch them for everything. The worst thing is they don't even willing to pay for the parking fees or never appreciate your help.

I reckon you should tell them that you need to pay for your petrol too. If they need your help to go to somewhere, you can definitely pick them up, but they have to contribute a bit like paying for the parking fees.

I am your friend for so many years, every time when we go out in KL... I am thankful and glad that you always come and pick me up. But I will always offer to pay for the parking, toll or sometimes your lunch or coffee for you.

Be smart and don't let your useless friends in Perth to take you for granted. It is very easy to see who your real friends are. Whenever a person who always call you or message you just because of your car, avoid them! As simple as that.

All the best in your studies and don't think too much. We miss you a lot in KL and hoping that you will be coming back here again end of the year.

By Blogger cOOkiE^mOnSta, at June 02, 2007 9:34 PM  

to be frank with u, i honestly think it is fucking ridiculous that a friend msg's u on msn, frienster or hp only when there is something on their mind and need YOU to be the one who helps them. I mean as cookie monsta said, ignore those that msg u out of the blue. honestly...

We all fall victim to these typa dodgy people, and we often try to avoid it but sometimes our sensitivity get in the way. We just gotta try harder.

Believe your friends [ ur close ones ] when they say that ur sucha nice girl and to be taken advantage of is a big BAD thing. So once you realise that someones only calling you or contacting you for something, ignore it. don't be blind. open your eyes big big. ahahah.

most people are selfish, no brains.

just be selfish back ;) its ur life. ur car. ur time!

btw. i got new vocab today. fuck spider!

By Blogger _jacque;, at June 04, 2007 2:09 AM  

kenken.. yeah, i have a few friends here who like to take me for granted. and most of the time they are selfish lah... i know friends do need each other's help for a certain thing... but some of them are asking for too much... sometimes i really wanna just put a sign on my body saying "im not ur fucking chauffeur" hehehe

heard tat u bought a car in KL... next time it's ur turn to pick me up!!! muahaha... be very scared coz i will definitely take u for granted!! close friends nvm rite? hehehe

not sure whether im going back this end of the yr... see how it goes first! but would love to go clubbing in KL!!! more happening there than those clubs in perth!

jacque babe... i believe in u! hehehe... but even if u take me for granted, i will be fine.. coz u are my best buddy mah.. and i know u wont take me for granted one lah.

i will be more selfish to those friends next time. coz im give in to them tat i can pick them anytime they want. they have to learn how to be more compromise...

fuck spider.. dunno why a lot of singaporeans like to say tat! i think it's cute... muahaha... ima spider. kan cheong spider, fuck spider...

By Blogger *~sOphx~*, at June 04, 2007 3:51 PM  

Yes, you have the rights to take me for granted. I don't mind actually. Oh yeah, I saw your best friend Shek Kim, is it Shek Kim or Cass? Saw her at Mid-Valley the other day with children. But I didn't say hi to her as I was rushing to somewhere. Please come back to KL, there are so many things to do here! I know you miss the food here, so fai fai come back. The clubs here need a clubbing queen. No wonder Zouk and Velvet Underground are not that happening anymore. :)

By Blogger cOOkiE^mOnSta, at June 06, 2007 5:05 AM  

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Good friends will never take you for granted and will always be understanding. On the other hand, bad friends will always take you for granted and they will never be understanding; and never will they put themselves in your shoes. Fuck all the friends who are taking me for granted, I have had enough of the shits that you guys are giving at me!!!

This morning I received a phone call from C* but I never answer her call coz I was still sleeping. Anyway, I heard the vibration of my mobile phone and after that I couldn't continue to sleep. So, when I checked on my MSN, she left a few messages for me like "Are u there? are u there? are u there?" I thought it was something urgent, so I decided to call her back as soon as possible.

She started telling me that she has booked a hotel room online but in the end the room is not available. She has paid around $300 for the rooms but the online agent refused to refund her the full payment. She tried calling them for a few times but they kept putting her on hold or didn't bother to answer her calls at all. In the end, she decided to go to their office to make a complaint... but she is sick.

Can you guys get the the hidden meaning there? C* hardly hang out with me, she hardly call me, we hardly chat on MSN, we hardly even do any fucking things together. I think she is trying to ask me to go to Murdoch to pick her up, send her to Subiaco to file a complaint, then she has a few things to buy there which I must accompany her to go shopping, then fetch her back to her house again!

So, I told her that I can't as I need to study at home. Then she said,"Huh? A few hours also cannot meh? It's not like I will take forever!!!" Oh well... If I have to go down and fetch her and to Subiaco and to Murdoch again, it will take around 1 hour, making a complaint 30 mins, shopping 1.5 hours. All together is 3 hours!! 3 hours is forever to me, I can study one chapter for my Corporate Finance!

She was a bit disappointed and mad in the end but I just can't be fucked with that. I mean, if it is that urgent, go there herself lah! When I was sick like hell, I still can work at the cafe, I still can drive everywhere myself!!! WTF is she thinking leh???

Sometimes friends can just pissed me off to the max!!! I mean... it's not like I never help her before. Every time when she needs my help to sell things, collect stuff, put ads at Murdoch Uni to sell her car... I have to go to her house to collect everything! I mean, if you need my help, you are the one who should pass the things to me, not asking me to go down to your house!!! But I am good enough to go to her house without saying anything!

She is the person who always wanna save her own money or do things that will benefit herself first. Just as long as she is not at the losing side, she just doesn't care. So, I have had enough of all this shit!!! She is not even being understanding at all!!! I am going to have my fucking final exams next week, stressed like hell everyday, don't have enough sleep everyday and now she is expecting me to sacrifice my time for her? Fuck you BITCH!!!

There is this Chinese proverb which says "If people are not selfish, heaven would bow in shame." I am so fucking agree with this proverbs now! C* is being selfish!! As for me, start from today I am going to be selfish with whoever I want to be selfish with! I am not going to fucking say YES YES YES YES and YES to all my friends anymore.

Jacque, Fiona, Diana and my best buddies in Malaysia who never take me for granted, they said that I have a serious problem! A problem like I hardly reject my friends and in the end I am the one who suffers. They think that I should start rejecting people more if I really can't help them. My exbf and my bf always tell me one thing "You can't always make everyone around you to be happy. What about yourself?"

Hell yeah! What about myself? I am not trying to be mean to my friends start from today... I mean, if you do appreciate me as a friend, I will always appreciate you as a friend. Just be more understanding and stop fucking taking me for granted!!!!!

You guys must always remember that "There's no such thing as a free lunch in this world." Before taking me for granted, please see what you can offer in return. If you have nothing to offer, then go fuck spider! Friends are there to help each other, I agree with that. But if most of the time I am helping you and you never even bother to give a helping hand to me, then you also can go and fuck spider!

So, I hope that you guys will be more understanding if I say No to you guys in the future. If I can help, I will definitely help you. But if I can't, what do you want me to do? It's like forcing me to go and eat shit! Please people, I do have feelings too, I am a human too, I do have things to do, I do have my own life too... Can't you be more understanding? What will you feel if someone always like to make use of you?

A question -- Do you guys think that it is a bad thing if a friend calls you only when he/she needs you help? I am so confused!!! Some of my friends said yes, some said no!


*I do apologize for the rough words and crazy things that I have typed in this entry. I am just feeling so mad the whole day today!!!*

Quote of the day: "If you think love is difficult, wait till you have a bunch of friends who take you for granted... Then you will really know how to spell the word -- D.I.F.F.I.C.U.L.T"
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